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"I never get 'eyed' up.."
Dear Lynn,

Why is it I never get 'eyed' up when I go out when I'm with a friend - and he always seems to get lucky?

Anon, 25yr old male - Posted: 08/09/2007
Lynn says.. Page: 1
Posted: 31/10/07 17:21 | Last edited: 11/09/07 14:13
Hello, By the sounds of it you need to gain some self-confidence. When you see a girl you like you need to be showing confidence instead of hiding behind your friend/s, to do this you need to be standing out from the crowed, and im not talking jumping on the tables and acting like our prehistoric counterparts and clubbing the women over the head, im simply talking about smiling, women like men with a smile on their face, as it shows confidence, once you have gained her 'eye' go over and speak to her, I know it's hard but try and make the first move instead of waiting for her to come over to you, and im sure before long you will be showing your friends up. Good luck!
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NORTHENER234

Joined: 2nd Dec '07
Posted: 02/12/07 21:31
why is it my m8s get the girls and i dont when im just like them?
BOLD-BITCH68


Joined: 9th Sep '07
Posted: 05/11/07 23:29 1 out of 2 people found this comment helpful.
well i think this day and age people should be a lot more open minded theres many good looking men/women out there but can they have a serious chat or a laugh, some can but some are too busy looking in the mirror or on look out to see whos eyeing who up.They say beauty comes from within I wouldnt want to be with a 2 leggered dog but personality and sense of humour comes top for me everytime.I talk to anyone men or women when walking with the dog or shopping just say hello or smile build your confidence up and then if you see someone you like you will be able to chat to them good luck
MARKYMARK991


Joined: 22nd Sep '07
Posted: 05/11/07 13:00 1 out of 1 people found this comment helpful.
I thought the same as you. Just take a good hard look at my ugly mug!!!!!
Then I took a look at the "people checking you out" on my profile. I realised that there are alot of people giving me the eye who like purple hairy animals. Top tip for you is that ladies, in my age group at least, like the Sweedish Chef as well, Its odd as he's seriously ugly man.
I'm checking out all the lovely ladies on alot more than thier looks. What they write in thier thoughts is more important to me. This site for me is a great way for me to break the ice. Just use your time here to build that confidence and you'll soon work out who is giving you the eye when your out. You'll find that if you break the ice with a lovely lady that they will suddenly be very interested in you too. Be yourself because your personallity is what counts. Good luck mate!
JIMMYCOOL


Joined: 28th Nov '06
Posted: 04/11/07 16:51 0 out of 3 people found this comment helpful.
its hard i am told i am good looking by many different people and i can walk up to some am i over doing it
ELLIEMAY57


Joined: 27th Jun '07
Posted: 31/10/07 19:46 5 out of 5 people found this comment helpful.
I'd often wondered that about myself until one night when I just couldn't stop laughing at things. It was just a time when everything seemed hysterical and the number of people who suddenly started watching and chatting to me made me realise that I normally sat having quiet conversations and probably looked far too serious to be any fun! Doing kareoke (as badly as you like) is another good way to get noticed and making eye contact with your audience works wonders too. Try it, it works
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