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"I'm running out of time !"
Dear Lynn,

I'm getting into my mid 30s now and since my early 20s I haven't managed to hold down a long term relationship. I have had dates, but none have resulted in anything. I had planned on settling down and having kids but it looks like time is running out for me.. it makes me so sad.

 Anon, 36yr old female - Posted: 31/08/2007
Lynn says.. Page: 1
Posted: 06/09/07 16:17 | Last edited: 07/09/07 11:48
Hello, I really wouldn't think about it, i know that isn't as easy as it sounds but it isn't a race, stick to chatting to people on here and making new friends on and off the site, and before you know it the unexpected will happen, i do believe if you stop thinking or looking for something then it will happen! Just take it slowly and you never know who will be round the next corner - Trust me! Good Luck
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ALEXA3


Joined: 24th Aug '06
Posted: 26/11/07 00:15
Hi,

Please do not despair! I have been desperately trying to find a soulmate for so many years and must admit that have successfully failed! Some people are destined to be on their own others find their perfect matches in no time.... When I compare my life with my friends' busy chores, very often I ask myself a question - do I really miss taking kids to school every day, trying to be a good mother, wife and an employee? I think this is not for me, however people may disagree with me... Well, life of a single girl has its advantages, too... You make your own decisions and do not have to consult anybody... On the other hand lonely Christmases are not fun at all... Well, nobody knows what fate is awaiting round the corner...

Good luck!



Axa
BOLD-BITCH68


Joined: 9th Sep '07
Posted: 13/09/07 00:29 1 out of 2 people found this comment helpful.
plan your life out many of us do but it don't turn out like we planned,i couldn't wait to get married and have children ,but the child came along 1st then he ran scared , as many do or many stay but are no use or take part so LIFE IS LIFE GOOD OR BAD , for some of us we have more bad than good ,they say theres some1 for us all maybe so ,MR RIGHT I doubt it ,dont think he exsists
PROBERBLY


Joined: 15th Jul '07
Posted: 12/09/07 14:20 2 out of 2 people found this comment helpful.
enjoy your life, your still young and like Tracey said do the things you,ve always wanted to do, and love will find you, theres someone out there for us all, and smile, its contageous
TRACEYG


Joined: 22nd Oct '06
Posted: 11/09/07 19:24 10 out of 11 people found this comment helpful.
you are not alone out there. I'm 39 and never been married. Just got out of a 3 year relationship that was terrible. I got into it cos I felt that my time was running out. Now I'm out I think it's time for me. I am now content with my own company now so it doesn't scare me as much as it did before. Better to be on your own with good friends than in a stale distructive relationship that just brings you down. Try looking inwards to what makes you happy. Try not to think another person is the only answer, because if you are happy with yourself that's when the unexpected will happen. There is nothing more attractive than a person who is happy with themself. A partner doesn't want someone who is needy with a lot of emotional baggage. SO time for you hun. make it enjoyable, give yourself time, be brave and do the things you have always wanted to do. xx good luck .
ESP


Joined: 17th Jun '07
Posted: 11/09/07 18:52 0 out of 3 people found this comment helpful.
a quiters dont win a winners dont quite.keep ur head up ,the sky is limit.
MRSMILEY


Joined: 5th Sep '07
Posted: 11/09/07 13:14 1 out of 2 people found this comment helpful.
don't be sad, it'll happen x
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