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"Me and my sister-in-law"
Dear Lynn,

I have fallen in love with my sister in law and she feels the same way but wont leave home because of the upset it will cause !

 Anon, 54yr old male - Posted: 25/09/2007
Lynn says.. Page: 1
Posted: 09/11/07 00:19
Hello, Even if you are still married to your wife or split up, please stop and think about the pain and upset that will be caused between each families. This is something that should be thought about in great depth, and I really don’t think you should persuade your sister in law to leave home, if she decides to leave her family/husband/boyfriend then let that be her decision not yours, but remember the consequences that come with these issues, especially if there are children involved. I do believe we can't help who we fall for but in the same instance which should stand back and look at the picture from other people perspectives as it's not good causing family rifts etc. Good luck in your decision!
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C-PRINCESS


Joined: 28th Feb '07
Posted: 22/04/08 12:57
Sometimes you have to walk away from things,even letting go of someone you love,your sister-in-law has definately got the right attiude here...i know you cant help who you fall in love with,and it must be so frustrating,but you will be a bigger man letting go then causing like what has been said,"so much upset" ,and who is to say it will even work with the two of you?
BOLD-BITCH68


Joined: 9th Sep '07
Posted: 11/11/07 23:37 1 out of 1 people found this comment helpful.
Well I think theres a line in life and both of you have stepped over it big time,I believe you can't help who you fall in love with but I'm sure its more lust or just a dangerous game youv'e got yourselfs into good luck in destroying each other and your families if you both persist at this.
PARIS


Joined: 31st Mar '02
Posted: 11/11/07 23:37 2 out of 2 people found this comment helpful.
your mad! dont do it.
Firstly, what about your brother...and actually, thats all im gonna say.
RASHOMON


Joined: 16th Sep '07
Posted: 10/11/07 15:47
Be very careful. We are programmed to fall for people. It is hormonal. Love like this is not real love. When the hormones stop what is left is love. What you want is going to cause major problems. Tread very, very carefully. Don't let your heart rule the day. Too much hurt will ensue.
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