My husband said she had a sexy bum

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Posted: 03/12/07 00:21 Hello. If he pays you compliments and tells you that you are sexy I'm sure you have nothing to worry about. He obviously wasn’t up to anything as you were there with him. It’s not nice that you are feeling this way so I would sit him down and explain to him how you are feeling, and ask him not to say those kinds of things to other women in future as you don’t like it. If he loves you he will respect your wishes. If he has cheated on you in the past, then it would give me cause of concern and I can't say that I would trust him. Good luck.

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C-PRINCESS Joined: 28th Feb '07

Posted: 03/02/08 22:48 I agree with what Ayrlou said earlier..i think you are as bad as each other, but no guy should say things like that infront of their girlfriend never mind their wife but a wife shouldnt be on a dating site either.

V8DRIVER Joined: 9th Sep '07

Posted: 07/01/08 09:12 2 out of 2 people found this comment helpful. Hello Anon 19yr old married female, seems to me that both you and your husband got married far too early, he's still eyeing up other women when he gets a few beers down and you are already asking for advice on a dating site instead of sitting down with your husband and sorting things out. And, as Ayrlou rightly points out, what are you doing on a dating site anyway?

CHRISFNB Joined: 7th Dec '07

Posted: 06/01/08 15:43 STOP FEELING PARANOID AND JUST GET ON WITH IT, IF HE CHEATS CUT HIS BITS OFF WHILE HE SLEEPS, BUT LIKE SOMEONE SAID EARLIER, WHAT YOU DOING ON HERE, ISNT IT WORKING, YOU NOT HAPPY WHAT?. PUT UP OR SHUT UP.

SUSIEJ Joined: 18th Jul '04

Posted: 06/01/08 15:43 Well i have been seeing a man 7years younger than myself and getting along fine. When we are out he sometimes comments on other women but it doesnt worry me one little bit, if he stops looking at them he will pobably be ready for his grave. I have every confidence in myself that he has everything he needs with me, and if he strays,....... well he is just being greedy lol.

DAYZEMAY Joined: 11th Jun '02

Posted: 01/01/08 18:39 0 out of 1 people found this comment helpful. Blokes are blokes...and their brain isn't always in their head. As long as he goes home with you , there's nothing wrong with window shopping...You can't tell me that you have never looked at a bloke and thought woohoo...I look at cars and say say wow that's nice, but I carry on with the one I've got!

AYRLOU Joined: 17th Jul '07

Posted: 31/12/07 10:44 6 out of 6 people found this comment helpful. What confuses me with this is. If your husband said that, he is just making a comment. But explain why you are on a dating site!!!! Is that not a hell lot worse!!!!

SKABOY Joined: 30th Dec '07

Posted: 31/12/07 10:44 0 out of 2 people found this comment helpful. well i think its disrespectfull babes u should pay him back and say mmm he as a nice bum dont u think next time your out and if he says anything just say well keep your oppinions to yaself next time and if u ever cheat on me il cut ya balls off

LIKESWET Joined: 26th Nov '06

Posted: 30/12/07 12:45 1 out of 2 people found this comment helpful. Just remember he married you for you, that means not just one part of your anatomy but the whole package. I think perhaps he was just messing around and nothing in it at all. Dont take each other for granted, marriage takes a lot of time and effort and you have to learn to accept each others faults whatever they are.

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