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Posted: 31/03/08 22:37 Hi there. Well what men expect and what they get are two different things. It's entirely up to you whether you sleep with someone on a first date or not, but I would advise against it. On a first date you don’t really know anything about this person, so why would you sleep with them? Your better off going on a first date to see if you actually like each other, then plan to meet again if the first date goes well. Take things from there and let nature takes its course. Good luck with the dating.

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CRUSIER Joined: 6th Apr '02

Posted: 07/05/08 10:28 Everyone seems to hint that it's the bloke doing all the wanting, in my experience it's often mutual and why not if thats ok with both, chill out life and experience are often good.

KIRKEE1 Joined: 27th Apr '08

Posted: 06/05/08 19:48 0 out of 1 people found this comment helpful. Greif!! has anyone ANY sense of morality these days? Sex outside of marriage !! no way

CASSIE59 Joined: 1st May '08

Posted: 01/05/08 19:42 1 out of 1 people found this comment helpful. If a guy wont wait,he,s not worth wanting,or having.

LORENMATE Joined: 28th Apr '08

Posted: 30/04/08 22:48 1 out of 1 people found this comment helpful. you may be attracted to each other but if a man hints for sex on the first date, chances are good that he will f*** and chuck. If hes mr right he will wait for the right moment .. don't rush things : take things your pace x

SANJ69 Joined: 29th Apr '08

Posted: 30/04/08 12:34 Go with the flow. If you feel like it do it. If not then don't. Don't worry about what the other person is expecting. Expectation ruins relationship....

IAN-S Joined: 2nd Jan '02

Posted: 30/04/08 00:28 1 out of 1 people found this comment helpful. In my view, probably a bit quick but it depends on so many things. If they really like you, they will wait

ELLEN1956 Joined: 5th Feb '08

Posted: 20/04/08 00:04 Meaningless sex is an empty experience but as far as empty experiences go it is one of the best!!!!

LITTY2260 Joined: 4th Mar '08

Posted: 17/04/08 14:55 2 out of 2 people found this comment helpful. I think if the guy likes you, then he can wait until you both get to know each other a bit better. you need to enjoy each others company and going out.

BUTTERFLY3 Joined: 1st Apr '08

Posted: 07/04/08 17:39 2 out of 2 people found this comment helpful. Wooowww sloww down! In Amsterdam there is a plenty of trade for meanlingless sex-They are safer there I've heard. My husband had sex on a first date and now he's single and has less sex than before!!! Unless you've had a damn good time and by some miracle found a soul-mate..what's the rush..The flirting and waiting is more fun..

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