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It has been a long day.... getting tired, still getting better....
i need a holiday......lol

I am feeling really down. I have recently just come out of hospital after having a stroke, causes by stress etc.
Right i am feeling lost, my life has taking a one hell of a shock.
please excuse any spelling mistakes cos i have forgetting how to spell properl etc sinse this happened.
So i need some cheering up pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee lol..
Dee x x

Dorset is a great place ...... and yes ,Bournemouth is close to me , well about 45 min drive from me..........lol
There is lots to seen in Dorset and lots to do.

Another day, And what a beautiful day it is today.
Makes one glad to be a live. As I am glad I am after what happened to me........

Any one who wishes talk please do as I not able to reply to email.
take all Dee xx

Friends.
I have been sat her having a chat with a new friend, and at times it makes you realise that what does friends stand for?
Someone you chat to?, someone you go out drinking with? someone to confide in.

Well after today I have realise that friends does not always mean the right things.
A friend should be there, through hurt, pain and sorrow, loss and gain.
Of late many of my friends have been critical of my choices in life, were was the support? I didnt need critisism just respect for what i choose to do with my life and support.
Maybe that is a lot to ask of a friend in this day and age, I dont know anymore.
There was one particular guy who wanted to date me, his belief was that i should be getting my off my butt and be working, I explained that though both my sons in their teens that I dont want them becoming latch key kids.

Yes my life is somewhat a stuggle, but I am happy knowing my kids are not on the streets getting into drugs, drinking, shoplifiting and getting into undesirable trouble before they become adults in their own rights.
once tared with a bad reputation it sticks throughout life. No i cant give my kids designer clothes or shoes or ps3 or all the latest gadgets, but i can give them stability and try to keep them trouble free and keep them law biding and a better reputation for the future. Is that so hard for anyone to understand a mothers love and wanting to protect her kids.
I guess what i am saying "friends" when you next talk to a friends spare a thought for their feelings and what they believe is right for them, support them not critacise them.
Be there with idea's to help, not put them down for their choices, be there to hug them in times of pain, be there to laugh with them to laugh in times of happines.... Reflect on the true meaning of friends..

Feelings
Reliability
Intergrating
Entertaining
Nice
Dependable
Supportive.
My friends are for as long as possible, be there for each other in times of need.
Ok so i have waffled on a bit .........lol